129 Moments Women Realized They Were Dating Or Married To An Idiot

Man, relationships start off so great. The initial, sweeping romance often consumes a couple when they first get together. In this stage, you feel as if you've found a perfect match, someone who is both similar and new. Someone compatible. You want to spend as much time with them as possible, and enjoy each other's boundaries melting away. But that exposes our less glamorous attributes too.

In an attempt to show the unexpected turns their love life has taken, women are confessing to the internet how husbands and boyfriends are testing their limits. So we at Bored Panda decided to put these complaints together and see if we can all somehow grow from it.

From little everyday crimes (such as eating cheese like an animal) to bigger offenses (like hitting on your partner's married niece), here are a million ways to frustrate and disappoint your partner.

By the way, I feel like we also need to include a disclaimer. This publication doesn't mean that all men are garbage and every woman is a saint. I'd say it's more of a study to see what common relationship problems women go through.

#1 I Was Complaining To My Boyfriend That We Never Cuddle Anymore And This Was His Solution

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#2 My Husband Doesn't Want The Case To Get Scratched And Cause An "Eyesore"

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#3 How My Boyfriend Uses Cheese

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#4 My Aunt’s Skeevy Boyfriend Went From Asking What My Husband And I Want For Christmas To This Garbage In 2 Minutes

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#5 I Split Up With My Boyfriend Yesterday. I Fell Asleep While He Was Packing And He Stole My Toilet

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#6 Instead Of Rinsing His Cup Between Drinks, My Boyfriend Will Just Refill It With Whatever Since It “Mixes In His Stomach Anyway”

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#7 The Way My Boyfriend Sliced This Avocado

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#8 My Sister Asked For A Nintendo Switch For Christmas. Her Boyfriend Must Have Misunderstood

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#9 This Is Where The Plate Goes After Dinner. Not In The Dishwasher. Not On The Counter. Not Even In The Sink. It Should Be Perfectly Balanced On The Sink, Just Like This

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#10 Instead Of Cleaning Up The Sugar He Spilled, My Boyfriend Decides This Is Perfectly Reasonable Instead

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#11 My Boyfriend Puts The Butter Away Like This In The Fridge Door. Fully Exposed And Touching The Fridge I Haven’t Washed In Months

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#12 My Husband Bought Memory Foam For “His Side Of The Bed”

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#13 Texted My Husband To Show Him My Brilliant Idea For Making Sure I Drank My Full 1 Liter Of Water Before My Ultrasound

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#14 My Roommate Got A New Boyfriend, He Used My Clippers, Didn't Brush Them When He Was Done, Didn't Clean Out The Sink And Clogged It Too

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#15 My Husband Is Technologically Challenged

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#16 Asked My Husband To Do A Maternity Photoshoot. Don’t The Dogs Look Great?

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#17 My Boyfriend Doesn't Throw Away Empty Toilet Paper Rolls. Instead, The Top Of The Toilet Becomes His Garbage Display Area

I take out the garbage regularly, but I wanted to see how long this would go on for - it's been 2 weeks.

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#18 Sent My Husband To Buy A Baby Shower Gift Bag

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#19 These Gum Piles My Husband Keeps Leaving Around The House

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#20 My Sister's Boyfriend Thought A Rock, From His Backyard, Was A Good Christmas Gift For Her

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#21 My Boyfriend's Gaming Set Up

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#22 My Boyfriend's Job Title Is Actually "Solutions Engineer." This Was His Solution

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#23 The Way My Boyfriend Makes Ramen

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#24 Gave A Girl A Compliment About Her Shirt, Received This From Her Boyfriend

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#25 Husband Puts His Coffee Mug Next To 2 Empty Coasters

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#26 Husband Got The Lasagna Back Out At 9pm Last Night To Get A Second Slice, Forgot To Put It Back And I Didn’t Find It Til 10 Hours Later

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#27 When My Husband Goes Out In Public Like This

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#28 When Bae Put His Beer Away By Himself. What Is This Mess?

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#29 Holiday With A New Boyfriend - He Opens Bread Like This

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#30 Got My Boyfriend Some Nice Cookies Imported From Holland, Turns Out He’s A Monster

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#31 I’m Breaking Up With My Boyfriend

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#32 My Husband Ties Bread Bags Into Super Tight, Impenetrable Knots So I Have To Tear The Bag Open To Get To The Bread

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#33 My Husband Never Finishes A Pack Of Gum Before Opening A New One

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#34 How My Husband Puts Back Cereal

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#35 Husband’s Gift To His Wife

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#36 This Is How My Boyfriend Uses Paper Towels

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#37 My Boyfriend Put Salt Instead Of Rice In The Rice Cooker, Been Wondering For An Hour Why It Was Taking So Long To Cook

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#38 This Peanut Butter Jar My Husband Put Back In The Cupboard

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#39 100% Will Rip Open A Bag Like A Damn Raccoon And Then Notice It's Resealable

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#40 Husband Leaves This In Fridge In Case Anybody Wants Some

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#41 How My BF Opens Cereal

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#42 Someone Posted About The Plastic On The Microwave To Protect Its Beauty, I Present You, My Boyfriend’s Computer

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#43 The Way My Boyfriend Wears Socks Around The House

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#44 The Way My Boyfriend Eats Pizza

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#45 My Sisters Boyfriend Cut A New Loaf Of Bread Like This

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#46 My Boyfriend Leaves Empty Packages In The Fridge

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#47 The Only Picture My Drunk Boyfriend Got Of My Halloween Costume

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#48 My Boyfriend Leaves The Stickers On New Stuff. Help Me

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#49 This Is How My Boyfriend Squeezes Out Toothpaste

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#50 Boyfriend Opens A New Soap Every Week For Some Reason

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#51 The Way My Boyfriend Cut A “Taste” Out Of This Cookie Cake

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#52 My Husband Leaves A Tiny Bit In The Bottom Of Snack Bags And Puts Them Back In The Cabinet

He says he’s "saving it for later." There are now ten bags with little or next to nothing in them. The problem is he never eats them, buys new ones, and after a few weeks I have to throw them away.

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#53 How My Husband Stacks Plates And Platters

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#54 Husband Put His Pants Right Beside The Laundry Basket Instead Of Just In It

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#55 Husband Used My Favorite Knife As A Garden Tool

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#56 I've Waited For So Long, Then My Husband Drove The Car

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#57 Recently Moved In With My Boyfriend Who Has A Habit Of Leaving His Clothes On The Floor, I Asked Him To Put His Jeans Away In His Closet And This Is What I Found Later

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#58 My Boyfriend Left Me Some Icecream

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#59 Dear Husband, Is It Too Much To Ask That You Sort The Silverware When Unloading The Dishwasher?

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#60 So My Sister Got Goalie Gloves For Christmas From Her Boyfriend For 'Being A Keeper'

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#61 On This Table, You Can See All The Gifts My Husband Has Bought Me For Last Christmas, Our Anniversary, My Birthday, And Mother’s Day

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#62 That's Why I Never Ask My Husband To Help Me With The Dishes. It Was My Only Frying Pan

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#63 When Your Husband Says He’ll Take Care Of Lunch

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#64 When You Ask Your Husband To Load The Dishwasher

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#65 Asked My Boyfriend To Put The Washing Out To Dry And Came Back To This

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#66 Husband Steals Double Stuff Oreos And Takes Frosting Out

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#67 The Way My Husband Opened This Bag Of Nappies

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#68 My Boyfriends Food Cupboard. I Think He Just Upends His Shopping Bags Directly In The Cupboard Rather Than Unpack

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#69 My Boyfriend’s Toilet Paper Graveyard

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#70 How My Boyfriend Eats Burgers

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#71 The Way My Boyfriend Left His Ice Cream Cone While He Went To Pee

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#72 My Husband Eats Apple With A Spoon

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#73 Where My Husband Puts His Socks

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#74 My Boyfriend Decided To Use My Hair Dryer To Dry The Inside Of His Work Boots

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#75 My Husband Brought Home Some Milk Because We Were "Out"

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#76 The Safest Place Tonight

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#77 My Husband Always Opens Resealable Bags From The Wrong End

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#78 My Mom’s Boyfriend Never Finishes A Bag Of Cheetos

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#79 The Way My Fiancé Puts Away Cereal Boxes

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#80 My Fiancé Thinks This A Completely Acceptable Way To Cut A Cake

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#81 My Husband Eats Oranges Like They’re Apples. Send Help

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#82 Fiancé Regularly Leaves Dirty Clothes Directly Next To The Hamper

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#83 I Tried To Help My Boyfriend Keep His Bathroom Clean By Putting A Laundry Basket In There... So Close

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#84 My Boyfriend Gave Siri An Interesting Nickname For Me

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#85 My Husband Tried To Light A Battery Powered Candle

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#86 Wife Likes To Store Things In The Oven. I Don’t. That's Why I Don’t Check It

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#87 This Guy Destroyed His Girlfriend's Sand Castle

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#88 Husband Gift Wrapping Results

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#89 The Way My Husband Packs Boxes For Our Upcoming Move

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#90 The Way My Husband Treats The Butter

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#91 How My Boyfriend Opens Kleenex

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#92 My Boyfriend Is A Monster

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#93 How My Boyfriend Eats Chocolate

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#94 The Lights In My Boyfriend's Bathroom

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#95 How My Husband Cut This Pizza. Do I… Do I Stay Married?

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#96 The Real Strain Of Quarantine Is Having To See Daily How My Husband Cuts His Sandwich

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#97 The Way My Husband Opens Cereal. He’s A Monster

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#98 My Husband Opens Up Food That's Resealable In Random Places And Doesn't Use A Clip To Close It

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#99 The Way My Boyfriend Cut This Frozen Dessert

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#100 When My Boyfriend Does This

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#101 My Boyfriend Never Completely Closing His Dresser Drawers

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#102 My Husband Is 30-Years-Old And He Still Doesn't Know How To Open A Box

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#103 The Way My Husband Sliced This Pizza

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#104 I Asked My Husband To Grab Me One Of My Meds And He Just Punched A Pill Out Of The Middle At Random

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#105 Sometimes, I Think About How Much I Love My Boyfriend. Then He Does Stuff Like This

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#106 I Asked My Husband To Stop At The Store And Get Coriander

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#107 Look At How My Boyfriend Defiled This Cheesecake... He Took One Bite Of Every Piece

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#108 My Boyfriend Was Too Lazy To Get Up So I Could Change The Sheets, So I Just Made Them Over Him

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#109 Last Week My Boyfriend Purchased This To Sort His Mail

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#110 Elvis Pawsley Has Been Destroying The Garden. My Husband Chose This Solution

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#111 Asked My Boyfriend To Make The Dish For A Potluck This Weekend

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#112 The Way My Husband Cut Into The Pumpkin Pie

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#113 The Way My Husband Cuts Into The Block Of Cheese

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#114 How My Husband Eats Watermelon. I May Have To Rethink Our Marriage

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#115 My Husband Eats The Middle Pieces First

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#116 My Husband’s Toothbrush

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#117 How My Boyfriend Eats His Kit Kat

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#118 Asked My Boyfriend To Cut My Sandwich In Half

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#119 The Way My Boyfriend Cuts His Pizza To Avoid Cutting The Pepperoni

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#120 This Is Exactly Why I Don't Like Sharing My Pringles With My Boyfriend

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#121 Thought You Guys Might Enjoy The Way My Boyfriend Cut These Sandwiches

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#122 The Way My Husband Opens Boxes

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#123 My Husband Thinks It's OK To Butter Toast Like This

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#124 My Boyfriend Got Annoyed That None Of Our Roommates Had Unpacked The Dishwasher So This Is How He Put The Clean Dishes Away. I Might Be Dating Satan

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#125 How My Boyfriend Eats Pie

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#126 The Way My Boyfriend Is Eating This Pie

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#127 The Way My Husband Opened This Box Of Cookies. Now There’s No Way To Close It

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#128 The Way My Boyfriend Left The Pringle’s Can

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#129 What Sort Of Animal Opens Cereal Like This? My Boyfriend, That’s Who

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